Name : Chad Debyl

Phone: 608-770-7156

email : c_debyl@hotmail.com

Chad started out as a decent caller who bought small calls. once he bought an hour block his personality changed. He became toxic argumentative drama ridden and abusive. He went from being easy going to emotionally unstable. It wasn’t worth the drama and abuse and we didn’t want to risk a charge back so even though he used 15 minutes of a 60 minute block we requested a refund in his behalf. With the intention of blocking him from future service with us.

For some back history he told us right out the gate that all the previous pso’s he has dealt with were sub par low quality. So he was coming to us hoping to make a good connection to suit his needs. we went above and beyond to take care of him.  Here are some of the issues he had with our service.

2 examples of his toxic behavior.

• he bought email attention. We answered it  timely, wrote more than we normally provide to give him a good experience. Not only did he not notice this effort but he became toxic and he accused us of being automated because we got back to him within minutes with a response (it was actually 3 hours though he said it was 30 minutes).
• he tried to call us this past weekend 3x in a row back to back. We were slammed with callers. We didn’t know if he had a wife. So we didn’t try to call him back as it it had been 2 hours since he called. We did email him and let him know we were sorry to have missed him. Keep in mind this is like 2-3 days ago. He some how inflated that into “HE HAS BEEN TRYING TO GET THROUGH TO US FOR 3 WEEKS”.  So not only does he become toxic and nit pick but he lies and over inflates the facts to suit himself. We tried to de-escalate this by apologizing because we had a busy weekend but looked forward to playing with him soon. He then took this apology flipped it around and accused of us of purposely and unfairly neglecting him. Becoming emotionally unstable. So we feeling the drama was not worth any revenue decided to  request a refund. Because he had made the interactions with him quite toxic. And this was becoming a pattern with him.

If you choose to service him. Keep in mind he will change up on you with his behavior. Before providing paid email attention/stories/pictures/recordings really make him confirm what he wants before proceeding.  And if you choose to take calls with him I would discourage you from allowing him to carry over minutes and not sell him large blocks of time. I would only sell him what he is going to use on the spot. Because if he has time with you and you get busy with other clients or your off for the day/weekend its a holiday (doesn’t matter) he will become emotionally unstable, toxic, abusive, demanding and bring the drama.

And it doesn’t matter how kind, and sweet you are. He will twist your words around, sqew the facts and take them out of context. I’m not sure why he is doing this. Maybe its a fetish to treat the pso’s this way. But he really seems to have a split personality.  I would proceed with extreme caution when dealing with him. If your a pso who has good clientele and you don’t like drama and toxic behavior I would recommend you don’t service him.  Otherwise I would recommend you only sell him the time he is going to use on the spot. and double triple check with him before giving him any form of mailed or digital product. He is not easy going. He is actually very very picky and high maintenance. And once you displease him he will become even more toxic, more picky more high maintenance. To the point every little thing you do or don’t do is nit picked and your just stressed out. He will see micro aggressions/micro transgressions that are not there. And he will whine and throw tantrums in email. Then that  bad energy/stress lowers your energy moving forward.

In my opinion, unless your really hurting for business this guy is not worth it.  He has the unrealistic expectation to expect you to make him your main and primary priority over all your other clients and priorities in your life. If your a busy pso he might not be a good fit for you. He might be a good fit for a girl who doesn’t have that much clientelle starting out. However keep in mind at any point he may turn toxic. So prepare to have to possibly replace him with other clientelle later. I think this is why he is complaining that the girls don’t stick around. I think that once he becomes toxic they stop taking his calls or they limit their contact with him. And he just isn’t self reflective enough to see his own bad behavior. So he projects that onto all the pso’s versus taking any accountability at all.