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Chad Debyl 608-770-7156 Client turned Abusive and mentally unstable.

Name : Chad Debyl

Phone: 608-770-7156

email : c_debyl@hotmail.com

Chad started out as a decent caller who bought small calls. once he bought an hour block his personality changed. He became toxic argumentative drama ridden and abusive. He went from being easy going to emotionally unstable. It wasn’t worth the drama and abuse and we didn’t want to risk a charge back so even though he used 15 minutes of a 60 minute block we requested a refund in his behalf. With the intention of blocking him from future service with us.

For some back history he told us right out the gate that all the previous pso’s he has dealt with were sub par low quality. So he was coming to us hoping to make a good connection to suit his needs. we went above and beyond to take care of him.  Here are some of the issues he had with our service.

2 examples of his toxic behavior.

  • he bought email attention. We answered it  timely, wrote more than we normally provide to give him a good experience. Not only did he not notice this effort but he became toxic and he accused us of being automated because we got back to him within minutes with a response (it was actually 3 hours though he said it was 30 minutes).
  • he tried to call us this past weekend 3x in a row back to back. We were slammed with callers. We didn’t know if he had a wife. So we didn’t try to call him back as it it had been 2 hours since he called. We did email him and let him know we were sorry to have missed him. Keep in mind this is like 2-3 days ago. He some how inflated that into “HE HAS BEEN TRYING TO GET THROUGH TO US FOR 3 WEEKS”.  So not only does he become toxic and nit pick but he lies and over inflates the facts to suit himself. We tried to de-escalate this by apologizing because we had a busy weekend but looked forward to playing with him soon. He then took this apology flipped it around and accused of us of purposely and unfairly neglecting him. Becoming emotionally unstable. So we feeling the drama was not worth any revenue decided to  request a refund. Because he had made the interactions with him quite toxic. And this was becoming a pattern with him.

If you choose to service him. Keep in mind he will change up on you with his behavior. Before providing paid email attention/stories/pictures/recordings really make him confirm what he wants before proceeding.  And if you choose to take calls with him I would discourage you from allowing him to carry over minutes and not sell him large blocks of time. I would only sell him what he is going to use on the spot. Because if he has time with you and you get busy with other clients or your off for the day/weekend its a holiday (doesn’t matter) he will become emotionally unstable, toxic, abusive, demanding and bring the drama.

And it doesn’t matter how kind, and sweet you are. He will twist your words around, sqew the facts and take them out of context. I’m not sure why he is doing this. Maybe its a fetish to treat the pso’s this way. But he really seems to have a split personality.  I would proceed with extreme caution when dealing with him. If your a pso who has good clientele and you don’t like drama and toxic behavior I would recommend you don’t service him.  Otherwise I would recommend you only sell him the time he is going to use on the spot. and double triple check with him before giving him any form of mailed or digital product. He is not easy going. He is actually very very picky and high maintenance. And once you displease him he will become even more toxic, more picky more high maintenance. To the point every little thing you do or don’t do is nit picked and your just stressed out. He will see micro aggressions/micro transgressions that are not there. And he will whine and throw tantrums in email. Then that  bad energy/stress lowers your energy moving forward.

In my opinion, unless your really hurting for business this guy is not worth it.  He has the unrealistic expectation to expect you to make him your main and primary priority over all your other clients and priorities in your life. If your a busy pso he might not be a good fit for you. He might be a good fit for a girl who doesn’t have that much clientelle starting out. However keep in mind at any point he may turn toxic. So prepare to have to possibly replace him with other clientelle later. I think this is why he is complaining that the girls don’t stick around. I think that once he becomes toxic they stop taking his calls or they limit their contact with him. And he just isn’t self reflective enough to see his own bad behavior. So he projects that onto all the pso’s versus taking any accountability at all.

 

Paul Murray 206-914-9200 abusive, misrepresents what he wants tries to meet

Paul Murray 206-914-9200 abusive, misrepresents what he wants

he has been a paying client in the past turned wanker. its been a while so we gave him another chance . that we regret giving. he paid for 40 mins directly on line for  $100 . disrespectful to dispatcher and abusive to pso once connected. he misrepresented what kind of fantasy/pso he was looking for. client requested auntie incest assplay. only to blindside pso with  extremely  sexually and physically traumatically violent fantasy that pso does not provide.

pso offered refund in first 2 mins of call he declined refund agreed to not bring up that topic again. only for him at the 5 min mark to bring up the topic again more abusively in greater detail. with questionable porn blaring in background. and we hear porn all the time playing. this was not normal porn. this was questionable porn. not going into detail.

and when the pso gently told him to stop he proceeded to become abusive towards her and yell over her to try and force her to hear his chosen topic matter and the questionable porn anyway. (i will not go into detail…but we take all kinds of calls and have over 10+ years of experience and this was beyond no boundary and beyond extreme) and even if it wasn’t beyond boundary or extreme…pso told him she doesn’t talk about x,y,z  nor listen to x,y,z and offered him refund if that was his type of call he truly wanted. because she wasn’t going to listen to it or provide it.

he declined refund both times promised to stop only to become abusive turning up questionable porn louder and yelling abusively at pso  in an attempt to try to force pso to perform his fantasy/and possibly traumatize pso even though she specifically stated she doesn’t  perform that type of call/talk about that subject matter or listen to it especially in that elaborate detail.

Client also tried to push for pso’s real address and real phone number and real full name .  He kept pushing for this repeatedly.  He claims he likes to groom  a certain type of female in real life. not going to go into detail on that. we tried to tell him we don’t want to hear about that confession. Nor will we discuss that. because it crosses a line of legality for us. but despite warnings client wouldn’t stop.

and he also claimed he likes to groom pso’s to meet . Pushing hard to meet. pushing to meet even when pso told him no. made it quite clear that meeting pso was what he truly wanted. that he wanted to pay for physical contact with pso and pso’s most vulnerable family which we do not provide and wouldn’t provide under any circumstances. we do not meet in real life. we do not arrange for him to meet family members in real life.  we re-iterated this repeatedly. pso was left with no other choice due to his behavior. Pso had to hang up and disconnect the call without warning 5 or 6 minutes into call. dispatcher called back client and informed him of refund due  how he would get it and why. client apologized to dispatcher. claims he was just excited. didn’t even try to deny what he did.

pso’s if you choose to take this caller, and he violates your warning once. I would advise you heavily  to not wait for another warning. if that is truly your boundary. i would recommend ending the call immediately when he crosses that boundary and requesting a refund and blocking him. or simply blocking him. this guy has been calling us since 2021 does a few calls a year. some of them were normal, some of them were borderline. this one was the worst one we have ever taken with him. and we had to end it suddenly within the first 5 mins. so even if some of your calls are normal keep in mind it may very well lead up to this. and make sure you block your number because this client likes to find you, your family members. and he brags about it.

209-204-4214 harrassing wanker

calls repeatedly rapid fire wanking and breathing heavy.

Demanding we make him cum.

When service is offered for a price he just repeats over and over.

  • what’s included/what will you for me. (but asks this over and over and over while breathing heavy.
  • when you say its phone sex and its price/minimum he demands you give him free service.
  • when you refuse he becomes abusive.

Francis Muldowney 850-502-0258 Nasty Wanker red flag harrassing caller

Francis Muldowney 850-502-0258 Nasty Wanker, Red flag, harrassing caller, Jekyll and Hyde behavior.

Has been a paying call in the past. However he declines with us and wank’s more than he does paying calls.  One night he really wanted to fight apparently. Now on all our other interactions with us he refused to let us put his information on file for security reasons.

Then out of the blue he tells us to just run the card we did last time. Now we re-iterated to him we don’t have a file for him because he told us not to create and keep one. Yet he became mentally/verbally unhinged denying that occurred. (so split personality addiction issues who knows)

So keep in mind this is a person who told us firmly ” TO NEVER EVER KEEP HIS INFORMATION ON FILE UNDER ANY CIRCUMANSTANCES WHATSOVER”. But now…he is demanding to know why his information is not on file. And yelling complaining and becoming abusive because why didn’t we make a file for him.

We offered to process his card and if he wanted to then created a file on him we would. That resulted in him screaming at us for several minutes (with two different pso’s). Same thing “WHY DON’T WE HAVE A FILE ON HIM AND KEEP RECORDS”. followed by.. “WHY DOES HE HAVE TO GIVE ALL HIS INFORMATION OVER AGAIN”. And then he proceeded to indulge in a mentally unhinged abusive tyriad of insults towards which ever pso he was talking to while screaming.

So then he began to crank call every single line in our company (all 14 of them) jamming our lines and keeping our pso’s from making money until we blocked him.

So…I would implore you to proceed with caution with this one. He may have some sort of mental or addiction issue. We blocked him and will not be giving him any more service. If you don’t like drama you might not not want to deal with him. He appeared normal for the first few interactions. But then things just went down hill all of a sudden. Not sure why. Maybe its drugs, maybe he was always this way and hiding it. Be careful with this one.